The game of Life: from Colombia to the USA

From Missionari Saveriani, by Fr. Mark Marangone, s.x.March 2011

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Fr. Mark Marangone with Incarnation parish children
Fr. Mark Marangone with Incarnation parish children in Bogota

The story is told of a man who, one day, met a group of children playing outside in the yard. Seeing them, this man started to do cartwheels, made faces, and made the children laugh. A mother of one of the children observed the event from the window of her room. She quickly encouraged her son to stay close to him. “This is a holy man – she said to her son - Go to him.” That man asked the child: “What would you like to do in life?” “I don’t know” – that feeble voice answered. And then, with a sure voice, the child said: “I like to play.” That man replied: “Then, go and play with the Lord! If you succeed at playing with the Lord, you’ll do the greatest thing you’ve ever done. Everyone thinks that God is serious and boring. Go on, son, play with the Lord. He will be your greatest friend in the game of life.”

Earlier on in my life I learned about the Xaverian Missionaries, and their dedication to the missions and their service among the unfortunate of the world. I loved soccer, and every week I used to play soccer with my classmates after school. The story of that holy man who invites us to “play with the Lord” comes to mind as I reflect on my journey to the priesthood and missionary life.

I spent the last 13 years of my life “playing” with God in a parish of Bogotā, in Colombia. Together with 3 other young Xaverians, we accompanied the people of parish of “The Incarnation” in a journey of Christian and missionary growth, so that it would become a more unified family in God’s unconditional love and mercy, following the project laid out by the diocese of Engativā.

Life at Incarnation Parish in Bogotā
It was indeed an “interesting challenge” for me. I had to learn how to be a pastor of a Christian community, trying to encourage each member of the parish to take on responsibilities towards the parish so that it might become a “family” to everyone, going beyond borders. We have encouraged missionary and vocation activities with the hope that some young person would respond to the invitation of Christ to follow him in consecrated missionary life. Something has moved in this direction, even though only God knows the final results. It is the Lord who “calls to work in his vineyard.”

The Christian community has grown by leaps and bounds, with about 2000 people attending the 6 Sunday masses we hold in the main building. Many members have offered their services in the various ministries within the parish, with about 15 groups of dedicated Christian faithful. I have also witnessed a deeper sense of commitment in their Christian life, even though there is always space for improvement.

Since that Sept. 17 2001 when the parish was handed over to the Xaverians, we have seen the generous and positive answer of the people in the various activities of the parish, according to the needs and the discernment done by them. It all facilitated our commitment to work together, so that we could build the church and the parish center, begun in 1998. Through raffles and festivals, pilgrimages and banquets, we hope that the entire complex will be finished by the end of 2011.

Of course, our ministry does not focus only on buildings and structures, but on the people. Time will be needed to improve the “quality of Christian life;” yet we have seen some positive signs in this direction, and we thank the Lord for the many small deeds that reveal the presence of God and his work in our lives.

Small deeds for Jesus
What are these deeds? Well, a sign of reconciliation from someone who has been offended or has witness the violent killing of a family member; a word of encouragement towards someone who is going through a very delicate time in her life; an hour spent with an elderly or a lonely person; the sharing of a sandwich with children who do not have anything to eat; a cup of tea or chocolate to those who feel sick or cold…

And more: an hour together with children of the streets, to keep them safe and away from the dangers of the street; a morning spent at the doctor with someone who did not have the means of transportation; a visit to the nearest hospital; confession with the sick at home; communion to a discouraged and forgotten elder; the anointing of the sick to a person in his hospice bed, as strength for the “holy journey” from this earth.

These are indeed small deeds which we will not read on the front pages of newspapers, and they won’t make the evening news. Yet, they help the “growth” of the Christian community, and its “sense of family.” They are small actions which remind us of the presence of Jesus in our midst, and they speak loudly that the Lord is present in our midst, who loves us unconditionally. These are small “daily miracles” which reveal a large and missionary heart; deeds of love which mirror our journey towards a holy life.

Coming back to the United States
I waited a few months in Italy to receive once again the Visa for the USA, where I already spent about 12 years of my life prior to my Colombia experience.

I’m thankful for this opportunity, and for the generous love and prayers that I have received through the years. I wish you well, joy and blessings on each and everyone of you who have followed my mission journey thus far. Let’s continue to support each other in prayer and accomplish small deeds for the kingdom. Let’s pray that even more young people will promptly answer the call of Jesus to dedicate themselves for the service of the Gospel and the mission of the Church.

Let the following prayer be ours:

“Lord, help me to be a friend to everyone,
who waits without becoming tired,
who welcomes with goodness,
who gives with love,
who listens with care,
who gives thanks with joy.

Help me to be a sure presence,
someone to trust in time of need;
someone who offers a refreshing friendship,
and shines with joyous peace,
your peace, o Lord.

Make me welcoming and available,
especially toward the week and defenseless,
so that, beyond extraordinary deeds,
I may help those around me
and be close to you, o Lord,
filled with tenderness and love. Amen.”